What’s a Girl To Do?

I had one of those weeks.  Full of bad news, heartbreaking stories on the news, personal struggles, and it just all seems too much.  What difference could it possibly make if I have a cute craft room or make delicious meals while the world around me is suffering and there is so much sadness in the world!

Ever have those kind of weeks? It is hard for me to make sense of it all…and just when I think I may drown, like someone gasping for air one last time before sinking into the depths of the sea, He sends sweet reminders that He has got this! All of it!

I wrote on my chalkboard earlier in the week this reminder…

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I had no idea how much I would need that reminder! I know exactly what happens…I decide that with all of the suffering and sadness going on that somehow I cannot be happy.  That I have to carry all of this, that somehow it will help if I carry the burden, a burden that I was never equipped or intended to carry! So I carry it a while until my faithful Father arranges life so that I am able to be in a place to hear His voice reminding me that He’s got this! All of it! Whew! What a relief! He is not wringing His almighty hands wondering what is going to happen next!

So my job is to be who He created me to be. To walk in trust and confidence that He is working all things together for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose! That would be me!

Those things that matter to me, matter to Him! Somehow in the big scheme of things he uses ALL things to bring glory to His name!

So I will continue to listen for His voice amid all the chaos.  I will continue to do those things that nurture those around me…trusting…trusting…trusting.

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Friday Fare

Some of my favorite books are those that intertwine stories with recipes! You know, the ones where you here about a magical night full of friends and the most delicious food and then they share the recipe with you! When I heard about Shauna Niequist new book, Bread and Wine, I knew it was that kind of book and I could not get my hands on it fast enough! I am love, love, loving it!

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(on a sidenote here…I have spent the better part of an hour trying how to put a widget on my blog that would allow you to purchase the above book and put a whopping .09 cents in my pocket!! but I am calling it quits…another day…just thought you would want to know that this blogging is serious business!)

Our granddaughter spent the night Wednesday, and the next day she wanted to go to the mall. We cleaned out my island junk drawer and she had $13 in quarters! Kill me now! We sat down in the Disney store floor and had a long conversation about whether she ought to get the long blonde Tangled braid, save for a wedding dress that she really wanted or get two puppies at Barnes and Noble.  To be honest, saving for the wedding dress was my idea, I don’t think it was ever in the running!  After MUCH going back and forth, we headed home with two puppies.

 After taking her home, Ricky called and was going to be late.  I took the opportunity to rest from my HUGE shopping excursion and read a little more! Then with my fresh appreciation for the whole marvel of food, I put on my favorite Pandora station and prepared one of my standby recipes! It has all of my favorite elements, chicken, zucchini, lemon and tomatoes.  Don’t you have those recipes that you could almost make with your eyes closed. This is one of those.  I did cook up a few egg noodles and stirred them in at the end.  I added some crusty bread and had a meal! Great for nights like that!

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Chicken Cutlets Italienne

3/4 lb. chicken cutlets, cut 1/4 inch thick
2 medium sized zucchini
2 medium sized plum tomatoes
1 medium sized onion
1 medium sized lemon
2 Tbs. All-purpose flour
1/2 tsp. salt
1/2 tsp. dried oregano
1 1/2 tsp. Chicken-flavor instant bouillon
1/4 cup sliced basil leaves or 1/2 tsp. dried leaf basil
canola oil (or butter and olive oil)

About 30 minutes before serving…

Slice each chicken cutlet crosswise in half.  Cut zucchini into bitesized chunks; dice tomatoes and onion.  From lemon, grate peel and squeeze 2 tsp. juice.

On waxed paper, mix flour, salt and oregano; coat cutlets with mixture.

In nonstick skillet cook cutlets, half at a time in canola oil until browned on both sides, transfer to plate and keep warm.

In drippings remaining in skillet add 1 tbs. canola oil and over medium-high heat, cook onion until golden; add zucchini and cook, stirring occasionally, until golden and tender-crisp.  Stir in tomatoes, lemon juice, lemon peel, chicken bouillon, and 1/2 cup water.  Heat to boiling and boil 1 minute, stirring.  Stir in sliced basil.

Arrange cutlets on platter and spoon sauce over.

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The Craft Room

I am longing for a craft room.  I have had craft rooms in the past…the problem was I never really “crafted”.  So as more grandchildren arrived and they all needed their own space at Honey and Tatu’s house, all my necessary crafting supplies ended up piled into one closet and when the urge to “craft” something hits, I look in the closet and it quickly passes.

I was upstairs with my oldest grandson and mentioned that I wanted to turn one of the rooms into a craft room and his response was, “Honey, didn’t you try that once already?” I hate when almost ten- year- olds are so practical, and have such good memories.  So I promised that I would keep his bed in there and would keep it really neat.  Guess what?! My nine-year-old grandson said it was OK if I have a craft room in my own house! I am so excited!

I’m thinking something like this…

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Or this…

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Or this…

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I feel an overwhelming need to create something! I am looking forward to it! I am also imagining some sweet crafting with some little people! I certainly have pinned enough ideas! I’ll let you know how it comes along!

Do you have a special space set aside for your hobby?

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Family

Our weekend was full! Dear friends hosted a little reception for the newlyweds on Saturday afternoon! So sweet and so good to see friends that we hadn’t seen in a while! Afterwards the family headed over to our house for a little family dinner (aka… birthday dinner for me, but I didn’t dare say birthday again to you!) I LOVE family dinners!

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I am so grateful that our home is the “hub” for our family.  When we built the House on Oak Street all those years ago, we had these years and times in mind.  I dreamed of grandchildren years and years ago, and let me tell you, they have not disappointed!

At any time there are no less than ten things going on! Camping in the backyard, hair tutorial, unwrapping wedding gifts, cooking out, swimming in the hot tub, a little baseball,  you just never know! But one thing is for sure, we eat, we connect, we LOVE!

These are my favorite people EVER and I am grateful! We are committed to doing whatever it takes to keep ‘em coming!

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Friday Fare…The Ministry of Food

It seems lately that I have been offered many opportunities to bless people with food.  I have to admit that I think long and hard over jumping in and signing up.  I really, really want to be one of those who are always ready with a meal in the freezer or a cute little basket full of goodies, or at least a plan! So I began to look into how I could make this whole process a little easier!

The first think I did was to do what I always do and google it.  Taking food to others…to my amazement I found there are entire blogs dedicated to taking food! They are full of ideas and I gleaned a lot from them.  I even started a Pinterest board if you want to take a look.

These are some things I figured out.

1. I make it too hard. I think I have to take a gourmet meal and I get overwhelmed.

2. I make it too hard…I overthink it.

3. I make it too hard…it is a blessing, the simple act of taking a meal will make them feel loved and cared for!

So, this is what I have decided, I am coming up with one meal that will be my “ministry meal”, or maybe a couple.  I will keep everything that I need to cook and transport a meal ready. So…

I took a meal last night and this is what I  took.

*I just got back from delivering my meal and I just had to add this! I was supposed to put Italian Dressing on the recipe below and I put Ranch Dressing on it…It took 45 minutes longer to cook than I planned…so I delivered the meal 45 minutes late…so stressed out! After dropping the meal off I ran into an old friend…she is the spokesperson for a huge grocery chain and has probably taken thousands of meals to people! I expressed my frustration with the whole process and she agreed to come over for a little interview on taking meals!! So you can look forward to it!! She’s good!! OK…that’s all. I have to go put a heating pad on my neck!

Baked Chicken/New Potatoes/Veggies

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Pioneer Woman’s Rosemary Rolls

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Because pies are easy for me, remember I shared my easy crust recipe, I’ve included this in my meal.

My Mom’s Apple Pie (recipe below)

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 I’d love to hear what you think about my menu plan?  Do you have a “go to” menu that you like to take to others?  If you have been the recipient of meals, what were some things that made them particularly enjoyable?  I’d love to hear!

Mom’s Apple Pie

Start with this crust…doubled…simple pie crust.

1 can Lucky Leaf pie apples (NOT pie filling)

                                                                 1 1/4 cup sugar

sprinkle of salt

1 teaspoon cinnamon

3 tablespoons flour

1/2 stick of butter

Dump apples from can in bowl.  Cut any large pieces in half, trim off any rough spots.  Add sugar, salt, cinnamon and flour and mix well. Pour into bottom crust.  Slice butter over filling and put crust on top.  Flute edges and cut slits in top.  Bake at 400 degrees for 10 minutes.  Decrease temperature to 350 degrees and bake until brown, about 45 minutes.

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Toes in the Sand

We were sitting on our front porch Saturday afternoon, actually after our grandson’s game in the morning we spent almost the entire day on our porch! It was absolutely gorgeous! We were talking about The Birthday Month and how it was going and how I was feeling about it and I mentioned that I was sad that I couldn’t walk on the beach on my Birthday Month.  OK…can you even believe I am married to somebody that has the patience to even put up with the Birthday Month, much less ask how it is going.  Come to think of it, I am not sure he asked, I may have just been talking about it and he was just sitting there.  But he was definitely a participant in the next part.  For goodness sake, WE FLY FREE! We forget about it all the time! One of our girls is a flight attendant and that is a little perk that we enjoy, sometimes more than we have lately! I tell all my friends to make sure one of your children works for the airlines! Anyway…in five minutes we had listed ourselves on a flight for the next morning and rented a car and planned our big walk on the beach!!

I have to say, I do not enjoy flying! It makes me sick as a dog! (What does “sick as a dog” even mean?) But I do love to go places…therein lies the dilemma.  So, thank goodness there is a “less-drowsy” dramamine, I wash it down and take off!  While going through security in Dallas the agent said, “Happy early birthday!”. She really did.

Because we fly stand-by, we often board last. I figured out along the way that if I sit up front I am far less “sick as a dog”, so the poor chumps that board early and are all settled in with all that space in between them find that it is short-lived!  I have no pride as I settle in between them, and it paid off this time! I had the most delightful conversation with two of the most interesting men all the way to Houston!  Aaron Tippin ( you know, from country music fame, “Kiss This”) was on the aisle,  and on the other side was the executive chef from a fancy restaurant in Dallas…such nice guys and such fun hearing their stories, looking at grandchildren’s pictures…taking pictures! I didn’t feel “sick as a dog” once!

ImageWe hopped in our car after a stop for breakfast. While at breakfast, I said I would have water and she gave me a regular cup and said, “those little water glasses over there are too small”,  y’all that is a birthday blessing!  After drinking my water and eating my chocolate croissant (!!!!) we headed to the beach! We spent the rest of the day walking on the beach, picking up shells, talking, it was perfect!! A beautiful day!  We climbed in our bed that night, tired and happy!

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So, friends and family, here I am on the eve of my birthday and I can honestly say “I am full”. Everything else that comes my way is icing on the cake! haha! You like that…icing on the cake! I am one blessed girl… I will leave you with this…because this is the kind of thing you want stuck in your head!

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Food Friday

Sometimes when I think about sharing a recipe, I think, really, doesn’t everybody know how to make that?  But yesterday while watching a certain food blogger with her own cooking show, toast saltine crackers (yes!! she really did toast saltine crackers on TV!) I think, maybe not.  Oh, and just to be honest, I sat up and was like, WHAT, you can toast saltine crackers, who knew!!

I am not that great at consistency, but here goes, I’m calling this Food Friday.  We’ll see if on any other Friday I talk about food. And maybe I can come up something more clever than Food Friday.  Ideas?

I have been wanting to talk about pie crust for a while.  Years ago, actually I was pregnant with my first child, we were on a little road trip and stopped for an overnight with my aunt.  I don’t know about you, but I can remember meals from WAY back.  I recall everything about the meal! It was all delicious! For dessert she served a KILLER pecan pie and she shared her pie crust recipe with me.  I had always been very intimidated by pie crust but her recipe made it so simple! I use it all the time!

There are two things that make it unique.  You use oil instead of shortening or butter and you roll it our between two layers of wax paper after the countertop has been dampened.

I have my grandmother’s bowl, which you obviously don’t have but it makes the whole experience extra special!

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I had a friend over for pie making 101.  After lunch we put her little one down for a nap, turned on some beautiful jazz music and went to work.

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OK, y’all that is actually the original recipe that I wrote down 38 years ago! I try so hard to organize my recipes and get all techy but the truth is I love the memories that these old recipes hold!

After the two cups flour and one-half teaspoon salt are mixed lightly in your bowl with a fork, make a well and add your half cup of oil and your fourth cup of milk.  Old recipes are funny, obviously you don’t have to use Wesson oil, and I don’t sift my flour, though it would probably be better. You can also use water instead of milk.

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 Starting in the center, stir until all the flour has been pulled in and it forms a ball.  Divide the dough in half. At this point, get two pieces of wax paper. With a dish rag, dampen your countertop.  Put one piece of wax paper on the damp countertop.  Sprinkle flour on it and put your ball of dough in the middle.  Sprinkle more flour on the top and then put the other piece of wax paper over that.

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Now you are ready to roll out your dough. With quick strokes of the rolling pin, roll your dough into a circle slightly larger than your pie plate.

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That’s my cute friend rolling out the dough, I wish you could hear the music, it was really a beautiful afternoon.

After rolling the dough, peel off the top wax paper and lay the crust over your pie plate.  Then peel the other layer of wax paper off. Add your filling and continue with the top crust.  Cut around the pie and flute the edges. Then pop it in the oven and bake it according to the pie recipe that you are making.

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Two more things…I just called my Aunt Doris and she confirmed my suspicions, this crust would make a really small two crust pie, and it is actually too much for one crust.  So after you get the technique down adjust your flour/oil/milk ratio for the size pie you are making.  I was so glad that I called, we are going to have pie together soon! The other thing…I looked on Food Network just to see if they put the recipe for Toasted Saltines on there…they did not! Imagine that!

Well now didn’t that seem easy! I can’t believe it took me 711 words to describe this! I think you just need to come over, we’ll turn some beautiful music on, make coffee and make pies! See you next week (maybe) for Food Friday!

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I Give Myself Permission

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Well, April is my big birthday month.  It is kind of joke, though some in my family probably don’t think it is a very funny one, that I like to celebrate as long as possible.  The best way I can describe it is kind of like a reinventing of myself every year.  Others might do it on New Year, or other times, but it works for me on my Birthday Month.  I give myself permission to do things that I don’t normally do.  They aren’t necessarily extravagant things, they don’t always cost money…just things that for some reason or another, seem indulgent.  I ordered two books that I have been wanting on Amazon, OK, maybe four…got a pedicure, have had lots of friends for dinner, pushing my introvert husband out of his need for quiet because it’s MY Birthday Month! But my most recent indulgence was to have two of my grandbabies, the ones not committed to bettering themselves through that nuisance called school, for a long overnight that required nothing of me than to look into their angelic faces and hear every word that came out of their sweet mouths! It was glorious!!!

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I’d have to say, one of my favorite birthday indulgences so far! We read books, went to storytime at the library, visited Chik-fil-A, played at the park, dug in the dirt, but the thing that made it all so special is that we went SLOW!

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That is a preschoolers favorite speed.  The weather was absolutely beautiful and I was able to patiently stand by while they loaded themselves up, looking at every little thing on the way, buckled themselves in, told me a story while they stopped unbuckling to talk, the whole time thanking the Lord for the valuable gift of time and the gift of not being rushed!

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I had lunch with a friend, one that I am grateful loves to get to the heart of things and not stay on the surface, and the we talked about the Birthday Month. We are all worthy of celebration. Sometimes we can go a whole lifetime without recognizing that we are celebration worthy. As I am privileged to lead women out of the heartache of abortion, I am reminded again and again the truth of God’s word. He found me worthy of sacrifice, the supreme sacrifice of His son, Jesus. He desires relationship with ME! Because of Him, I am worth celebrating, and so are you! Maybe you ought to consider a Birthday Month! I highly recommend it!

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Dinner Guest

Tonight I am hosting a very special dinner.
All dinners are special, but this one is extra special.
While preparing forThe Wedding,
I was honored to take three brave, beautiful women
through Surrendering the Secret.
I watched their transformation as they laid down the guilt, shame
and heartache of decisions made years ago, and kept secret
all these many years.  But no more,
tonight we celebrate not only the six lives represented but
the freedom through the resurrected Christ!
They are changed women!

So, as I carefully set my table, I look forward to seeing their beautiful faces,
hearing about their Easter celebrations as they worshiped
with healed hearts, experiencing the gospel with newfound revelation that indeed the
shed blood of Jesus Christ is enough!

What an amazing privilege!

Each flower represents one precious child...lost through abortion.
Each flower represents one precious child…lost through abortion.

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Gosh Dog-it, I’m Back

When we began to talk about The Wedding, and it was decided that it would be at the House on Oak Street, I couldn’t have known how special that “moment” would be.  The bride and groom were standing in front of our fireplace, which was flocked with the most beautiful hydrangeas, the groom’s dad was praying over them, Ricky and I both had a grandchild in our laps, friends and family surrounded us, it was magical and absolutely worth every second of preparation!

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It was the sweetest thing to see our family and friends rally around us and offer their talents and time to bring it together! One of our grandson’s said “Daddy, Tatu built Morgan a wedding!” and it was true! Her daddy did everything humanly possible to make the night special!

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I am so thrilled to watch our baby girl and our precious new son-in-law begin this new chapter of their life together!

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All of these words and these few pictures seem so inadequate to describe all that has been our life over the last couple of months…but I’m done. Trying to regroup and get back to “normal” has been a challenge this week. Kind of like after Christmas, all the hustle and bustle, busyness, fun…then bam…back to normal! So I am slowly putting things back where they go around here, cooking meals for two again, (which my goodness, we have been eating on the go for too long!) and trying to regain my balance, preparing my heart for Easter, so grateful for so many things, but most of all for the supreme sacrifice that gives all of life purpose and meaning.

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